I
am from Mumbai. And Holi has grown up with time and changed quite a lot.
Holi
has always been everyone’s favorite festival. Kids are ready with water balloons
and water packets to throw on each other almost a week before Holi. This used
to annoy the elders, we never realized why until I started working, and hated
my laptop, phone, formals being wet.
So,
the day before Holi, the kids were assigned a task to collect, dry grass,
twigs, dry empty coconut shells, and the ladies of the building would light the
Holi fire and give us kids’ sweets.
And
there the kids would plan for the next morning.
We
used to be up early morning, wearing the oldest “Holi dress” and filling our
little pockets with gulaals and water balloons and stuffing our mouths with mouthwatering
freshly made ghujias and non-alcoholic thandaais.
We
had this small open tank behind our building where we filled water with every
possible color we could find and it was a mandate to put every kid in that tank
before starting the actual play
We
used to stay in a society; we had a building that shared the compound wall with
us. Holi, was no less than an India-Pakistan match between the two societies.
It was all perfect planning and delegation. The tall guys take on the center
lot, the tinier one back the tall ones, the sides to be managed by another lot.
Proper strategies were planned. A perfect guerrilla warfare was organized, with
three kids hiding in trees and attacking them. Of course, it was a no-win match.
And
yes, how can one forget beautiful pichkaris, that has evolved with age. It
started with a small pistols, got promoted to the long tube like pichkaris and evolved
to a backpack filled with water and connected to the pichkari.
After
the kids were half done with the playing, our parents would come and put
gulaals on each other and the whole society had a pot-luck lunch made by all
the aunties of the building.
Then
a major task scrubbing off the color, finishing every available soap in the
bathroom including the clothes washing soap, the shampoo was a norm for us. It
was given that one is going to spend at least 2 hours in the bathroom.
The
next day, you know which kids have played Holi is with their pink palms and
pinkish scalp.
Then
we grew up.
The
gulaals became, pakka colors of silver, black gold, boot polish. The thandais
became bhaangs. Friends in the society, started to vanish on bikes and cars
with loud music. Colors became toxic.
Somewhere,
in the growing up part, the pure charm of the festival got lost.
I’m pledging to #KhulKeKheloHoli this year by sharing my Holi memories atBlogAdda in association with Parachute Advansed
Hi DeeDee, I found your blog through the A to Z Challenge! I've never been to India, but would very much like to visit some day. My parents had some neighbors from India back when I was living at home, and when their eldest son got married, they had a 2nd reception at their house for their American friends. It was very nice!
ReplyDeleteI have enjoyed getting to know more about your culture. Thank you so much! Do you know what you are going to write for the A to Z coming up? I'm undecided as of yet, but as the theme reveal is on Monday (for those using a theme) I need to get ready quickly!
LuAnn (#378 on the list) @ Back Porchervations.
(and one of co-host AJ Lauer's #wHooligans)
Hi Lu Ann,
DeleteThanks for dropping by & thanks for this lovely comment too