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Wednesday, July 29, 2015

WODW: Pain

I am not going to think when I write this story. Actually, this story doesn't need any thinking. Its my story. It's what I went through and it has made me what I am today.

In 2006, I met with a semi fatal road accident. I badly crushed my right hand under the wheels of a carrier truck.
I was in the hospital, for 8 months and went through 19 surgeries for this, and I went through gazillion physiotherapy's for 3 years.

In the mean time, I went through an emotional turmoil, on the verge of breaking down and committing suicide because I had an irreparable scar on my hand.
I lost many friends, my boyfriend broke up with me.
A lot of money went into my treatment, so we had a bad financial phase.
All that unbearable physical pain after every surgery
I lost 2 years of my college.

What I learnt?
I learnt that, a scar or not I am beautiful the way I am
The people who accept me the way I am are my friends, a man who accepts me with my flaws is the man I would want to be with
Money comes and goes, i can earn it again, a little cutting down here and there and, life is good
I may have completed my education late, but I am talented and I have proved i to people who demeaned me, that I am nothing but the best
Pain is temporary. Its there to remind me that I am not weak.

Today, when i look back, I realize that this accident has made me a very strong woman inside, nothing can break me easily.

I realized,

Pain was just God's way of melting my weakness away

This post is written for -Write or Die Wednesdays  by Mia of The Chronicles of Chaos and Vashelle of Shelly’s Cabaret 


  1. It's true that your pain, and what you go through, can make you stronger! I like your last line about God melting your weakness away. I never thought of that before. Keep on keeping on :) *erica*

  2. What an inspiring story! Thanks for sharing.

  3. How true. Pain is God's way of melting weakness and one emerges stronger.

  4. I love this line: "Pain is temporary. Its there to remind me that I am not weak." Beautiful words, Dee Dee. Thank you for sharing your inspiring and brave story!!!

  5. Sending you a big hug all the way from India! Thank you for sharing your inspiring story! You're a hero!

    1. Received your hug, right here in India :-)
      Thanks for dropping by

  6. Behind every pain is God's prize for us. Lovely read. :)

  7. Dee Dee, that is a lot to go through at one time, and I want to send you a virtual hug for enduring so much! But like a phoenix, you rose from the ashes :)

    Your strength is evident in your words. Thank you for sharing with us!



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