The One

I always wanted a boyfriend or a partner, especially after all my friends started marrying and vanishing.
I yearned for a companion. I wanted to be loved, to be cared for. I wanted some one to miss me. I wanted someone to say "I love you" to me. I wanted to be kissed on the forehead when i was asleep. I wanted someone to hold my hand. I wanted someone to lookout for me.
It wasn't out of loneliness or peer pressure, it was genuinely what I wanted.

And came into the picture Win, he is the kind of person who would be lost in a crowd but will stand out of that same crowd for things he truly believes in.

I have dated a few men before, Win would never fit the typical date guy. He was the kind of guy you went to when you had a problem in your science project or maybe if your computer is giving you troubles.
But, after our one liner email interaction, i somehow knew that he is the one.

Yes, he isn't romantic. he doesn't remember dates. He doesn't know to dress up. he docent know to dance.
But, he treats me like a queen. He waited for me to come and set his house up as per my liking. He drives me to where ever I want to go.
I shifted to a new city after we got married. He saw to it that, i was independent and still kept an eye on me.
He lets me be me.

Looks aren't everything, the attitude and nature of a person matters in a relation.
Never judge a book by its cover there is more to a person than what can be seen outside

Start of a new chapter

I always wanted to write about my married life, but never got the time or words to put in appropriately.
So here, I decided to write about it on a blog

I was engaged for almost a year to this awesome man, who is now my husband of four months.

Win, is different. Oh, Introducing my better half, better in every way - Mr. Win

Win is shy, sweet, nice, very smart, basically he is opposite to what I am. I'm  brash, impulsive, a little short tempered.

Ours was an marriage arranged by our parents. We met as strangers, spoke as friends, got engaged, fell in love and had a long distance courtship.

Marriage, has changed us in some way. It has made us to think as "we" and not "me".

There are lot of smiles, hugs, love, memories, secrets, silly names. there are also misunderstandings, fights, arguments, tears.
It made me realize that marriage is not a bed of roses. Its a garden of many flowers that need proper nurturing to grow.

I realized that a marriage is not just two people, a marriage is a merger of two families.

The girl has to like the guy
The guy has to like the girl
The girl's parents have to like the guy
The guy's family have to like the girl
The guy's and girl's friends have a small say in the decision

And is some little energy is left, then couple get married.

I have also realized, in fights we say many things that are not supposed to be said.
I realized "sorry"is not just a 5 letter word anymore. It is a small glue that makes our relationship stronger.

I have heard from people that the 1st year is the hardest.
Now. I agree

Its the first post here...more smiles..more love..more years to go...